Social netiquette and how to avoid *awkward* moments

By Anthony Dever on 08 Dec 2009

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Tired of classmates from primary school requesting to be your friend on Facebook? Found yourself having a passive-aggressive argument via a comment thread on a blog or forum?  Sick of seeing incessant drivel coming through on Twitter?

Well it’s time the social web grew up, went to finishing school, learnt some manners, and to paraphrase the famous Ron Burgundy, “stayed classy”.

Our presence on online social networks has intensified the impact of our interactions with family, friends and associates. We are now able to locate, connect, and contact people at a increased speed which has resulted in a new set of expectations for social encounters online.

The etiquette of ignoring, friending, unfriending (the Oxford Dictionary’s 2009 Word of the Year), tagging, poking and liking correctly while not accruing Championship Creepy points for your behaviour is still evolving.

I recently discussed some of the most common social-networking faux pas and how to avoid them during my fortnightly segment with Kelly-Higgins Devine on ABC 612 Brisbane.

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Have a listen by clicking the play button above and tell me any stories you have experienced when you’ve been put into an awkward situation on a online social networking site.

Whether it was overaggressive friending by people you don’t really have a connection with or someone oversharing the information they have disclosed to their entire friend list then I’d love to hear about it.

Anthony Dever is BCM’s Interactive Strategist

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Anthony Dever has written 13 posts on BCM: Two Cents.

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Anthony Dever

Anthony Dever is an Interactive Strategist at BCM. He is a regular technology and social media commentator on ABC Radio and prior to joining BCM he was the creator of the satirical TV Fugly Awards. In his spare time Anthony plays table tennis, collects vintage robots and appreciates superb pop-culture/photography/design/art.

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